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Relationships


From "I" to "We" to "One"
Life can close in on us, especially when things don’t go like we hoped or dreamed.
At such times, it’s important to remember that relationships are the essence of life.

Tim Coats
Sep 133 min read


My Condolences
A moving reflection on grief, vulnerability, and the courage required for authentic human connection.

Tim Coats
Nov 8, 20253 min read


The Power of Praise
A heartfelt reflection on the transformative power of sincere praise and the lasting impact of encouraging others.

Tim Coats
May 25, 20253 min read


The Power In A Name
Tim reflects on the surprising impact of remembering names and why this small act leaves such a lasting impression on others.

Tim Coats
May 19, 20243 min read


Beyond Disagreement and Conflict
Conflict is part of human nature, but escalating division doesn't have to be. Lessons from business negotiations reveal surprising insights into finding common ground.

Tim Coats
Oct 29, 20233 min read


The Predicament of Our Shared Humanity
Beyond politics and conflict lies a deeper question: What blinds the human heart to love? A reflection on unity, separation, and the human condition.

Tim Coats
Oct 15, 20232 min read


The GOAT
The greatest athletes inspire us, but the greatest people in our lives influence us in quieter ways. This reflection explores how attention, humility, and genuine interest in others leave the deepest legacy.

Tim Coats
Nov 21, 20212 min read


Choose Kindness
Kindness is easy when it's deserved. But what happens when compassion is hardest to give? This reflection explores why choosing kindness may be one of life's greatest spiritual disciplines.

Tim Coats
Oct 24, 20212 min read


A Part Of Us
I have an embarrassing confession to make. At the risk of being canceled, I need to share that there is a little bit of W.C. Fields in me! The part I’m referring to concerns small children and dogs. Don’t get me wrong. I like animals. Cats are my favorite. A cat will walk into a …
Continue reading “A Part Of Us”

Tim Coats
Sep 19, 20212 min read


Dog-Sitting
What begins as two months of reluctantly caring for a dog slowly becomes a lesson in unconditional love, patience, and the surprising ways our hearts can change.

Tim Coats
May 23, 20212 min read


The Downside of Debate
Debate can sharpen our thinking, but it can also distance us from the people we care about most. Tim reflects on learning that understanding another person is often more important than winning the argument.

Tim Coats
May 2, 20212 min read


Cats and Dogs
Are you a cat person or a dog person? Tim uses the familiar differences between our favorite pets to explore a deeper truth: lasting relationships begin not by changing others, but by changing ourselves.

Tim Coats
Apr 11, 20212 min read


The Lost Art of Listening
Most of us listen while thinking about what we'll say next. Tim explores why genuine listening is one of the greatest gifts we can offer—and why it's much harder than it seems.

Tim Coats
Mar 28, 20212 min read


Loneliness
The pandemic reminded us how deeply we need one another. Through memories of his grandmother, nature, music, and family, Tim explores why loneliness isn't simply being alone—it's losing sight of life's connections.

Tim Coats
Mar 14, 20212 min read


Belonging
Looking back at an old high school yearbook, Tim reflects on popularity, exclusion, and the lifelong desire to belong. The lesson he discovers is simple: belonging grows when we choose to extend acceptance rather than seek status.

Tim Coats
Mar 7, 20212 min read


The Power of We
While tracing his family history, Tim discovers that every story is incomplete without both his-story and her-story. The lesson extends far beyond genealogy: our greatest strength has always been found in the power of "we."

Tim Coats
Feb 28, 20212 min read


Can Opposites Attract?
Music, photography, and nature all reveal the beauty of contrast. Tim asks whether we can apply the same lesson to our relationships, learning to live with opposing views while searching for common ground.

Tim Coats
Jan 10, 20212 min read
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